Breaking Up. We all go through it and we’ve either broken hearts or have had ours broken. Both hurt and both bring a different type of pain. Sometimes people think certain people LUCK out with this situation in life, but guess what there’s no escaping…everyone has their own story. Nikki and I have been through it more than once, so if you think you are alone…NOPE….join the lonely hearts club here!
Men you would love to be a fly on the wall in a women packed car….hearing all the conversations and gossip on men. Women we would love to be a fly on the wall in a male locker room….hearing all the comparisons men are making on women and relationships lol…..
Why do I bring this up…hmmmm..
This past weekend on the road I heard all the girls talk about men and their relationships. When I got home to NYC I went to several dinners with my girlfriends and guess what……every dinner topic was about past and present relationships. The current feeling of pain, even though it’s been forever since you’ve seen/spoken to that person…..Or not getting over a relationship that wasn’t even great to start off with. Well, after hearing many stories and comparing my own I realized how we really do live for LOVE. Ok maybe it’s just my group of friends, but I think it’s everyone….We all are looking for it, we love feeling it and more importantly we love giving it! If you think your the only person who doesn’t have love in their life come have dinner with me and my girlfriends and you will feel like the Queen of Hearts lol….what I’m saying is you have company, your not alone!!!
This week I watched a couple episodes of Sex and the City and Carrie said something I loved…..yes she’s a tv character, but she spoke the truth! 
"That your soul mate might not just be a man, but your 3 best friends." So I’m saluting all my girlfriends…. without them I would be lost in this crazy city and with them I have plenty of love!!!!
Enjoy your friends this weekend……love every moment with them.
the best relationship advice I can give you 
Xxoo
Brie
Awwwe that so sweet and cute! :’) What your wrote is right and I
Lovee youu Briee! Besos! Laura’ ♥
really loveee it!
Another great blog Brie. Though I’ve never been in relationship, yet I love what you had to say about love. I hope you will find that one special guy who will love you for you and have respect for you. You deserve nothing but the very best in life. But you and Nikki will always be loved by the people in your life, including your fans
Omg Brie, that was such an amazing blog! you’re right Friends are our soul mates! You’re blogs are always so inspiring, you always have the right advice and it always works! We all need love, and crave it. But friends are always there for you no matter what, but boyfriends/girlfriends come and go. I would love to go to dinner with you and your girlfriends, it would be a dream come true! lol
Since you might read this, i just wanna thank you for mentioning me in your fan questions about my comment on The Help, it was the happiest moment of my life :’)
Thankyou, you always make me smile, through Blogs, Fan Questions, Watching you on Tv. I just love you
Love you Brie, xox Daisy <3
Brie you are perfect.All boys that broke up with you are probably insane or have some brain damage.I am pretty sure that you will find the guy that you are looking for because perfect person like you deserve it.
This is so very true Brie. A relationship may only last just a small time, but friendship is forever.
You are not alone Brie, even being a guy i have had my heart broken. I still to this day remember the great times that we had together. I know don’t dwindle on the past but focus on the future. Sometimes though its hard to do when you know what you miss.
I look at life a lot differently now from that past relationship. I live life now knowing that everyday is different but I have gone through it. I am a stronger person. As I like to say:
“Live life like everyday is paradise”
Besos
- Nick
Awwww! Sweet Brie es verdad todo lo que dice! es por eso que eres tan dulce! hermosa brie Love You! <3
Guys get just as hurt as girls do when stuff like this happens trust me. I’m not quite sure how you both aren’t married or have guy troubles cause only a fool would give you up. lol no really you both are very beutiful so I’m sure it’ll happen soon and you’ll find the right person
Hey. So I finally got the courage to tell somebody I’ve loved (over a year) my feelings for him, and he never really liked me that way.
We just had a bond and it was different than anyone else I’ve ever liked.
There’s a HUGE difference between a crush and a love. And I really loved him.
So it really did break my heart :/
this really did bring me up and make me happier. Thanks so much I loved this blog. And it’s true.
Men will come and men will go, but your friends and family love you for who you are.
What happened to you will prove to be a blessing in one way or another, guaranteed.
Three most important things : family friends and Bella twins lol
Seriously you spoke the truth again ! My best friends are like a part of my family. As long as you have your family and friends next to you it’s all that matter…the rest of it’s just a bonus !
Fan questions : Do you watch European Soccer ? If so, what team do you support and why ?
Besos Brie
I just loved the blog. When I started 10th grade (2 months ago) boyfriends and specially ex boyfriends became an everyday topic. I don’t have and never had a boyfriend, I always say that It’s bad luck, but a lot of people say that I have luck to be single. I sincerely don’t know wich side take.
Another great blog Brie. Though I’ve never been in relationship, yet I love what you had to say about love. I hope you and Nikki find that one special guy who will love you for you and have respect for you. You deserve nothing but the very best in life. But you and Nikki will always be loved by the people in your life, including your fans
A guy would have to be crazy to break up with you, but im sure you broke alot of hearts
haha <333333
Whenever I go through a tough time, I use music to help me feel better. There are 2 songs that really speak to me about breaking up. The first is Bless the Broken Road by Rascal Flatts and the second one is Unanswered Prayers by Garth Brooks. Bless the Broken Road talks about how we’re on a path to our one true love. Each breakup that we endure is leading us straight to our one true love. Unanswered Prayer is about a guy who had been praying that his ex would come back to him, and he finally runs into her again, but he’s married to the woman of his dreams. He says how he thanks God for those unanswered prayers, because basically God knew what was best.
I think, when we go through these heartaches and breakups, we grow as people and we learn more of the type of person that we’re looking for.
For me, sometimes I feel like Chuck in Good Luck Chuck. It seems like every time I’m in a relationship, after we break up, the next person that she dates they end up getting married and having kids. I’m like, man, when is it going to be my turn!?! I know that God will work things out, and in the end, the woman of my dreams will come into my life. Until then, I will keep praying and also keep an eye out for that special someone. Who knows, I could be writing on her blog right now!
lol
This was a good point, also, that we’re not alone with our heartbreak. Everyone goes through it at one point in their life. It’s how we deal with that hurt that makes us the people we were meant to be.
Hi Brie, I enjoy reading your blogs every week, and I gotta say I agree with you, but if you asked me about love( and this is my opinion you know, just me talkin) there is no such thing as you know “movies kinda love”. when I was young I used to love animation movies such as (Aladdin) or (beauty and the beast) or etc… because you know how the guy falls in love with princess and they live happily ever after and all that crap. these things dont happen in real live. even if there is 2 people who love each other and they want to get married, at first maybe there is love , but after some years ………. every thing will change.
If a guy loves a girl just because she’s beautiful, that’s not love I call that LUST, but if a guy loves a girl for no reason just for her and for her personality, guess what?? she may not feel the same way.
so at the end I just wanna say that love, and I mean real love, just for family, true friends, and in my case for THE BELLA TWINS (;
I like your blog. And i totally agree with you. I have only been in 2 relationships, once when I was 19 and the one I’m in now and from what I have learned, as long as you have your friends and family, everything will be ok. That’s really all the love you need right there. Keep these blogs coming, gives me something to do at work.
Did you ever love someone
But knew they didn’t care.
Did you ever feel like crying
But knew you’d get no where
Did you ever close your eyes at night
And say a little prayer
Did you ever look into their heart
And wish that you were there
Did you ever watch them walk away
Not wanting them to go….
And you whispered “God, I love you”
But never let them know
Did you cry at night in misery
And almost go insane
There’s nothing in the whole wide world
That causes so much pain
If I could choose between love and death
I think I’d rather die
Love is fun but hurts so much
The price you pay is high
So I say don’t fall in love
You’ll get hurt before it’s through
You see my friend, I should know
Because I fell in love with you
I don’t know who wrote it, I just remembered it from the 6th grade. Anyways hope you like that. Anyways if you and Nikki are ever in the Bay Area in NorCal and you want to hang out, let me know. (I know it’s a 1 in a Billion shot)
P.S. My 2 year old son loves the video of Nikki singing Super Bass
You two really inspire me to keep doing what i do. Very inspirational women, thank you so much!
I once saw a quote that I liked that applies to relationships and life in general: “Success is going from failure to failure without losing your enthusiasm”. Or in other words, when things go wrong, don’t get down on yourself.
This is real deep. I really loved it Brie. But I’d just love to give my little take on it or at least the soul mate part…
I believe in (a non-religious spiritual) Reincarnation, and I don’t really believe in a “Soul Mate”. I believe that there are souls we gain and have good karma with through many lives. I think it’s those people(souls) who end up being our best friends and lovers through most of each life we go through.
I think many people have lost the ability to truly listen to their soul, and have faith in the existence and their life plan. Our minds have been poisoned with all this media garbage with various TV shows trying to make it seem like love is hard and it hurts. True love doesn’t hurt. It’s the rational mind not listening to and understanding the soul that’s causing the hurt and making love seem hard.
I remembering seeing a quote on twitter (I can’t remember it precisely) it went along the lines of “If you waste your time hating things that are in the past, you have a hard time loving anything in the present or future” which I totally agreed with. I also want to add to it that if you can’t have love for all living things and even your self, then how do you expect to love someone in a relationship?
I follow this philosophy. I try tend to stay away from people who don’t take care of themselves and don’t have a love for all living things, but if I do encounter them, I am still nice to them, friendly and loving anyway. I’ve never had a heart break yet, but I also haven’t been in a serious relationship yet either. But I’m still young and have much time in this life for a true lover (or even best friends) to come to me.
Well, that’s all I have to say haha. Have a wonderful day
hi brie… i can totally relate to what u r saying. I’m a guy but pain don’t discriminate. i broke up wid my girlfriend of more dan 3 years not so long ago….she was cheating on me n when i found out about it my whole world just spiraled down into oblivion and everything just came crashing down on me all at once and it hurt a lot n i felt as if i was dying inside and it still haunts me every passing second and it still hurts a lot. i kept telling myself that it was all just a nightmare but……. i cant even describe the pain. I’m trying really hard to move on but its just so damn hard and everytime i remember her i feel so heartbroken, lonely, angry ,frustrated, stupid n aaaarrrghh so much more. just writing bout her is killing me. but i know i ve to be strong and get over her but to be honest i feel completely lost and i don’t knw what to do. right now the only thing i can find comfort is in KURT COBAIN. Im in a band n the only productive thing thats coming out of all this is that I ve written more songs and our music became much more angrier and hard.:) and also whenever i see you two, no matter how or what i was feeling at that moment, i just calm down n get some peace of mind. and i would like to thank you for that and i would love to get some advice from you on how to handle this situation. thanks n love u both.
Great blog topic. So many people think they’re alone in situations like this and other tough situations in general. I wish I could have read this blog a few years ago when I had my heart broken!
oh! brie Ante, who helped a lot of Lfaqarh and anti Khalogah too and have a sense for those who are poor will come right and i want you brie enjoy for nikki and your mom ok! noor
and help for you frends and enjoy brie i love you very very match xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxxo brie bella
Hi Brie, I understand how you feel. 3 years ago in the 5th grade I was called ugly by girls. I don’t know why, but I just accepted it. Nearly everyone I know has had either a bf or gf but I haven’t. And I don’t expect one anytime soon. But for you, with your looks and personality, it won’t be hard for you. Remember today can have nothing, but tommorrow will bring something. I wish you the best in life Brie.
All the people who break the hearts of the needy, and second, they will break their hearts will not keep silent one on the right hand and will be a component in one hand and help them?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!-.- please don’t broken hart please help everyone need Brie I love you Brie -.- besos?!
I know I already posted that on Twitter but I loved every bit of this article Brie. You pointed out something that is indeed true, real friends will always be there for you no matter what & you can always count on them.
I’d just like to add one more thing about the soul mate bit of your article. How can we tell with absolute certainty who is THAT soul mate we are looking for throughout our entire life? Is it someone we think we can love forever, someone who truly loves us? Or is it merely a “somebody” who meets our needs for a given period of our life? Because let’s take the marriage for instance: I think the great majority of them will end up in a divorce. Why? The main reason evoked being “We are not made for each other anymore.” There must be some sense in this, because I feel that in some way we are blinded by that little thing that we call love. I would go farther by saying: Is even true love a reality? Because, to me, we think, most of the time out of despair, that the one we have fallen in love with is the right person. And why is that? Just to avoid feeling lonely & incomplete, and more specifically to convince ourselves that we found our soul mate, the right person. Though in the end, we may just be delusional about that.
I am not claiming I have the answers to everything but sharing someone’s life only out of despair to avoid ending up all alone is definitely not a good option. I might be a little too much romantically naive but I think that if I have to share someone’s life, I would rather do it with the right one than being delusional and staying with the wrong one and fail to seize the opportunity to live a great and beautiful “love” story… I for now firmly believe that trying to find one’s soul mate is merely a wild dream but that’s just me I guess.
Anyways, all of that to say that if you really believe in true love, you have to keep on looking for it. Breakups are a necessary evil, you gotta go through some bad relationships first to somehow be able to appreciate the good relationships next time around & then maybe find what you deeply think is your true love/soul mate.
Sorry if the comment is a little bit long to read & a bit messy, but it’s 3:45 am here in France, and I’m tired so at least for now it still does make sense to me ^^. Hope it will for you too & that you will take a few minutes of your time to read it!
Besos Brie ♥
I Love The Advice Brie
good blog
wow all that is me right now i am feeling that way right at this moment but in my case im looking 4 the wemon not the men lol but yeah fter reading that right now i can tottaly relate 2 it n btw i no ur club is 4 girls but can i join 2 hahahahahaha tank brie xoxoXO
It seems my long comment didn’t get approved… sorry about that. Sometimes when I get deep into thought I start blabbing on about stuff haha.
Still great blog.
Brie,
You’re right.
It’s amazing how something so simple can be so hard to find.
Sometimes I think people try too hard to find love. They let it control their life and everything they do is geared towards finding someone to love them.Also I think often times acting that way leads people to be outlandish towards other people and actually has the opposite effect on love, it shuns it away.
One has to love themselves first before they can expect anyone else to love them back.
Be yourself. Be happy. Lifes too short.
Simple for some to live by those principles, but so hard for others.
Keep things in perspective and lead a happy and fufilling life, and Id say love isnt too far behind.
I like your story… Nice advice =)
continue giving advice , it can make our day
God bless always to both of you
brie and nikki i love alot!!! you are everything to me and now im realy looking for wwe 12 are you two on the game? i want to know!! hahah love you bellas and brie i love yor advice and your blogs:) dont worry divas of doom will fell because de bellas!!! you rock my world:D
Great blog Brie and good advice , love you both! , stay safe , Besos!
Love sux totally!!!!!!When you think you found your one true love,they either cheat on you,lie,or abuse you……I need to pull some wierd science and build me the perfect mate;p…………GO ST LOUIS CARDSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!
Every one should have a true love